Negative thinking will get you nowhere.
I was one of those people that were constantly frustrated and anxious about things that did not matter.
I thought that life was not fair, no one cared about me, I was not good enough, I was not thin enough. Nothing could convince me otherwise. I was on my way to ground zero.
As they say, better late than never.
It took me until my forties to snap out of it and change my mindset.
I started by taking baby steps, living for the now, and trying to turn every negative situation into an opportunity.
I also tried to take control of those elements within my control. For instance, exercising to get my blood pressure down.
I had to deal with those issues in my past that kept holding me back. Issues within my family and rejection by friends.
I also grew to appreciate what I had. My aunt used to say, "money can't buy you happiness" and I used to answer, but it helps.
It helps to an extent, but having too much money can cause all sorts of complications in one's life.
When I looked across the aisle I could see a whole lot of people, professional people, here in London now utilising food banks and I am like Wow, "Thank You, Lord".
I am still a work in progress but I am getting there. All I know right now is that I am enough.
Here are my top tips if you find yourself in a rut and need to get your mojo back.
- Listen to music
- Taking care of your mental health and meditate.
- Prepare for a good night sleep with a single focus activity.
- Change your mindset
- Being able to take control
- Creating a routine for myself and staying accountable.
Stay Blessed
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