My Pink Lady Code

On this lovely day of Ash Wednesday, the first day of Lent, it is time to reflect on ourselves as Christians.  It is particularly challenging when you are catholic.  Some people have asked me over the years if we are true Christians and why we worship Mary, Mother of God. At first, I used to get annoyed, but now I simply answer them and say "I don't worship her, I venerate her".  But what is the difference, one might ask? I simply regard our lady with reverence and respect. I want to share with you a poem that I saw on the net that encompasses mostly how I think of myself as a Christian.  When I say that 'I am a Christian', I am not shouting that 'I am clean living. I'm whispering, 'I was lost, but now I'm found and forgiven.' When I say, 'I am a Christian', I don't speak of this with pride. I'm confessing that I stumble and need Christ to be my guide. When I say 'I am a Christian', I'm not trying to be st...

Hiya It's February, the month of love Many of us are preparing for Valentine's Day to give Love to our loved ones. It's time to reflect not just on our love for others, but for one self and one's ability to do things in this life without inhibitions. Like Sugar Ray Robinson says, "To be a champion, you have to believe in yourself when no one else will".  In other words, embrace the champion that you are, believe in yourself and know that you are worth it. Believe you me, you can only give love to others when you love yourself. In the US, it's also Black History month, a time to reflect on the achievements of Black Americans in general.  As a woman of colour, it's challenging sometimes when we know that we cannot progress due to discrimination and the colour of your skin, and sometimes we feel helpless. You only have to look at the recent Monique situation with pay in the entertainment industry and sigh. However, in this game of li...

1. Firstly, life is like a hotel. You check in and check out when God wants you. Therefore, we have to live our life as spiritually and morally as possible. 2. We need to take care of our bodies and not abuse it as it is a temple. We need to love ourselves better. If we have issues, it is important to take responsibility and not blame others. 3. Find out who really has your best interests at heart. Ask yourself, if you are blessed and acquire wealth and knowledge, will your family love you for yourself or just by the mere association? Will they tell you what you want or need to hear? Will they sell you out when you die for a mere buck? Who will have your back and instil a tough love approach if they get out of line? 4. Surround yourself with good people and not people who may lead you astray or yes men. Yes, we are all humans and can easily be influenced. With God in one's life, temptations can be overcome. 5. In this world where we have a system of raising people...